Tuesday, July 29, 2014

The Regrets

The point is not to live a life without any regrets; the point is to not hate ourselves for having them.
Life is all about making choices, making decisions which ultimately defines our destiny our fate. There are time we feel weather the decision we took, the choices we made were correct or not. And that’s how we develop regrets. Sometimes for doing something we shouldn't have done and sometimes for not doing something where we could have. 
Our life is full of regret, only someone who is blessed with a perfect lifestyle; living in an ideal universe could think of having a life without any regret, well the chances are one in million or billion I should say. So there comes the art of living in such a way where we don’t have ourselves for those regrets.
Earlier I used to  believe that I want to have such a life in which I don’t have to regret anything but soon I realised there are things beyond my reach, there are things I don’t have control on. Life got filled with regrets which keep haunting me over and over again, and I keep blaming myself for various reasons. A few days back I came across a statement which kept me thinking about the right way of taking those regrets which I shared in the beginning of this post.

Got inspired by those lines I decided to change my perspective of looking at my regrets, the life becomes simple if we stop blaming ourselves. Let’s try this way out and see how we can make our life worth living. Well another month has passed by, though it’s all same, Still it adds another page to the evolution called Destiny.