The point is not to live a life without any regrets; the point is to not hate ourselves for having them.
Life is all about making choices, making decisions which
ultimately defines our destiny our fate. There are time we feel weather the
decision we took, the choices we made were correct or not. And that’s how we
develop regrets. Sometimes for doing something we shouldn't have done and
sometimes for not doing something where we could have.
Our life is full of regret, only someone who is blessed with
a perfect lifestyle; living in an ideal universe could think of having a life
without any regret, well the chances are one in million or billion I should
say. So there comes the art of living in such a way where we don’t have
ourselves for those regrets.
Earlier I used to
believe that I want to have such a life in which I don’t have to regret
anything but soon I realised there are things beyond my reach, there are things
I don’t have control on. Life got filled with regrets which keep haunting me
over and over again, and I keep blaming myself for various reasons. A few days
back I came across a statement which kept me thinking about the right way of
taking those regrets which I shared in the beginning of this post.
Got inspired by those lines I decided to change my
perspective of looking at my regrets, the life becomes simple if we stop
blaming ourselves. Let’s try this way out and see how we can make our life
worth living. Well another month has passed by, though it’s all same, Still it adds
another page to the evolution called Destiny.