The world we live in is both good and bad; at some point of
time it’s full of happiness and sometimes it’s full of sorrows, it has lot of
bitter truths and so many sweet lies. In this particular post I’ll be more
focused on the lies we live throughout our lives. A few days back I was
watching a program “Brain games” which clearly demonstrated how a human brain
has evolved to lie, because brain always does what it feels best for the
survival it’s a kind of adaptation technique which we have developed during our
evolution which I think every living creator practices in order to survive But
in case of humans it has gone bizarre way beyond one’s expectation. To prove it
I came across a video on internet about how this whole world is controlled by
few influential people and how they are molding every other living or
non-living being to their benefits making all of us feel like living in a
wonder land to fulfill our dream but eventually we all are just living their
lies the lies that we show us. If we see
the current situation in this materialistic world we tend to live lies on which
we have no control of or which we think will not affect us anyway or which we
cannot change leaving us no option but
to live with lies which I need not mention specifically. Cause every individual
has their own lies and truths to live with. It’s very clear that we all live
lies. May be in different ways , in
different situation and to different people yes our lies also changes person to
person situations to situations, the point is some of us can’t even stick to
our lies also we can’t be true to our spoken lies as well and perhaps that
people end up making a hell out of their life. But it’s not all bad in fact the
way things are going on in the world around us, it’s like willingly or
unwillingly we have to accept some lies,
hide some truths may be we don’t lie but we have to be a part of it and that’s the only way to find balance in our
life.
"The Japanese say you have three faces. The first face, you show to the world. The second face, you show to your close friends, and your family. The third face, you never show anyone. It is the truest reflection of who you are."
I have never been in favor of lying or being a part of any
lies in fact I used to be one of the most out spoken and straight forward
person and I am pretty sure that all my friends would agree to it. But Now I
believe speaking the truth in my school and college days to friends and family
was rather easy than to the outer world where people live lies and turned their
ears deaf to all the truth which is against their will. It it’s a hypocritical
world where people think something, speak something else and do something else
and when we live a lie for a long time it turns out to be our ultimate truth.
Well I believe As long as we can hold on our truth we shouldn’t opt to lie
especially in case of making relations. I may not be very good at making
relations but it has been my prime virtue to keep the truth for there is
nothing to hide to the one you think you hold a good relation to and that’s can
be observed in all my relations. Choosing to live with a lie is like living
with thorn on the chest unless and until we take it out there is no relief. Still I am no other but just an ordinary man
who has certain lies to live…
