How often do we try to help others without having the thought of getting benefited by that? How often do we keep our own interest out to meet the requirement of others? well chances are less but even if we are doing such customizations we are pretending to be nice which is also a kind of self satisfactory behaviour which people tend to adapt. Thinking of a speech I heard a few days back, it was clearly told that there is nobody in this world that would be doing something good to you genuinely, no friend, no relatives not even family.All the living beings on the planet have to think about themselves, Since their birth till death they seek their own salvation in many different ways, may be by getting worldly pleasures, may be by achieving something great, may be by affecting others life. but whatever they do they do it for themselves.
In a way it defends the selfish behaviour of the people.yes people are selfish we blame them to be selfish when we all are. just look at yourself, don’t you think you have been selfish several times in your life, you did, we all do. It’s by nature, Our heart beats for us, brain thinks for us, its by default in the body and soul to make you feel alive and do whatever it takes to run your life, perhaps that's why nobody can die by holding their own breath because your selfish body and soul does not permit you to do so. then what about suicide ?? well It is also a selfish behaviour to get rid off the problems when we can not find solutions, leaving all the miseries to others people choose death over life, we all pretend in different ways, pretend to be good pretend to show care and love and above all we pretend that we do not pretend, its genuine.
Well another month of my pretending's have passed away, at one go, pretty much in the same way, there is not much of a change I found in that, just keep evaluating different ideas and their outcome, which are fundamentally based on the 80% law .which are likely to be in favour. I too have been accused of being selfish at times, and I do try to pretend to be nice with the people around, no regrets, Its all about seeking salvation at different level.
In a way it defends the selfish behaviour of the people.yes people are selfish we blame them to be selfish when we all are. just look at yourself, don’t you think you have been selfish several times in your life, you did, we all do. It’s by nature, Our heart beats for us, brain thinks for us, its by default in the body and soul to make you feel alive and do whatever it takes to run your life, perhaps that's why nobody can die by holding their own breath because your selfish body and soul does not permit you to do so. then what about suicide ?? well It is also a selfish behaviour to get rid off the problems when we can not find solutions, leaving all the miseries to others people choose death over life, we all pretend in different ways, pretend to be good pretend to show care and love and above all we pretend that we do not pretend, its genuine.
Well another month of my pretending's have passed away, at one go, pretty much in the same way, there is not much of a change I found in that, just keep evaluating different ideas and their outcome, which are fundamentally based on the 80% law .which are likely to be in favour. I too have been accused of being selfish at times, and I do try to pretend to be nice with the people around, no regrets, Its all about seeking salvation at different level.
May God Bless
